It is only contemporaries who can give scope for spontaneity in free competition and in equal co-operation. Self-respect without tyranny, consideration without slavishness, can be learnt best in dealing with equals.
Source: Bertrand Russell: On Education, especially in early childhood, 1926, Pt. 2: Education of character, chap. 10: Importance of Other Children
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Politicians act as if they are equals when dealing with those who hold more power than themselves, but approach those with less power with a sense of "consideration" or deference. For politicians, lying, deceit, and flattery seem to be among the first manners they must master.
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