Ottoline had a great influence upon me, which was almost wholly beneficial. She laughed at me when I behaved like a don or a prig, and when I was dictatorial in conversation. .. She made me less self-centred, and less self-righteous. ...She made me much less of a Puritan, and much less censorious than I had been.
Source: The Autobiography of Bertrand Russell, v.1
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