I have said a great deal in an earlier chapter about the importance of overcoming fear and producing courage ; but courage must not be confounded with brutality. Brutality is pleasure in forcing one's will upon other people ; courage is indifference to personal misfortunes. .
Source: On Education, especially in early childhood, 1926, by Bertrand Russell
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